Even thou I have been married seven years I have just discovered something strange about my wife. I have always taken if for granted that she felt the same way about cups as I do. The other day the bottom fell out of my world when I found she didn’t. Not only does she not feel the same. she thinks I am a bit odd for my views.
I have written before about my weekend cup, but that is only the tip of the iceberg. I also have a cup for coffee on school weekday mornings (well two I need a reserve, I don’t have time to hunt for it). One at school. I have one for coffee after school if I have any left. This isn’t used very often. I have another for school week days when I’m home ill, again a very underused cup. The one that caused the trouble was my hot chocolate cup.
My eldest step son had ordered a new Harry Potter cup for me for Christmas but only arrived the other week. I was very pleased with the gift and told my wife it would now become my evening hot chocolate cup, she gave me a very odd look. Maybe she hadn’t heard me correctly so I explained again this one will become my new hot chocolate cup, not sure what I will use the old one for, it could become the reserve but then what do I do with the old reserve cup? I got another blank look in return. So, I went on to explain the different cups I use assuming she had the same system. Apparently, she doesn’t, she just uses any old cup. I was shocked for seven years I had been making her tea in the same cup assuming that one to be the correct one only to discover she doesn’t mind.
I have now started to worry that there might other odd people out there who use any cup that comes to hand. I’m going to start a campaign to help these people. We will need legislation, inspectors and reeducation centers. Who’s with me?
Post script;
I asked my youngest (13) to take some photos of the cup for me, when he asked why. After I told him about the article he spent ten minutes walking around the flat saying “Who is going to want to read about a cup?” in increasingly incredulous tones. I hope he is wrong ….
Odd? not a bit of it.. Weird? Yes!!! It’s a wonder the poor girl hasn’t sent for the men in white coats to take you away Eric. 😉
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For a start I don’t think there are left any more. Mental health treatment is now a bottle of strong cider and be told to get on with it.
She would never get rid of me I can make a very good cosmo.
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Not odd at all, I have different mugs for different beverages. You could use your spare for soup, I have a special soup mug.
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Ummmm soup
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I’m strictly ‘a right cup at the right time’ guy.
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I would expect nothing less from you!
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😎
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Tell your son he’s crazy to think that cups don’t matter 😉
Yes. I have weekday cups and weekend cups… tea cups and hot chocolate cups. Cups for when I’m sick. Cups that I don’t mind if my husband uses. It’s very complicated, but it all seems normal to me 😂🤣
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Trust me it’s normal we stand together against all the weirdos that use any cup
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#acupforeachuse folks unite!
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I understand this completely. While I don’t have the discipline that you have to maintain specific cups for specific occasions, I do feel drawn to certain cups on certain days and choose based on this.
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We are the normal ones
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LOL!
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I have my personal favorite cups for sure but hate to admit to you that really I’ll make do with whatever is clean if they aren’t available.
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How can you live like that?
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It’s that or run the dishwasher daily. Sacrifices must be made.
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Us poor people wash up by hand and still use the correct cup. Now you have published three books it might be time to increase your domestic staff.
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Most of ‘my’ cups were gifts – ‘world’s greatest mom’ that sort of thing. If they aren’t available, I will settle for another. 😉
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This isn’t related but I thought you might be interested in this or know someone who would be:
https://www.amazon.co.uk/b?ie=UTF8&node=12061299031
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Hey Eric!
I’ve really loved your blog and recently nominated you for The Blooming Blog Award. Do make a post, and select your nominees as well! Here’s my post:
https://lavanyasaysblog.wordpress.com/2017/05/23/tadaa/
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I gift my friends cups or coffee mugs with our pictures printed on them
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That’s different, a great idea unless you fall out with them then they could get their revenge by smashing them.
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Right but we work wishing everything to be fine.
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Totally, I was just being silly
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Haha….no worries
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